There's a post Things I will not do to my characters. Ever. by Seanan McGuire, in response to a male fan asking when one of her female characters was going to be raped. WHEN.
When she replied "Never", she was told that this was unrealistic, despite her novels being fantasy based tales in which one of said female characters looks human but is a parasitic wasp. The fan heaped on some victim blaming by suggesting ways in which a rape could "realistically happen" like a female wandering around in her provocative dance outfit after dark.
The comments are full of win. Like many there, I've not read McGuire's work but now I want to, and I know I'll never have to worry about the 'rape as character development' trope when I do.
As one of the commentators,
dornbeast said in the metaquote that led me to the post, "For some reason, female characters seem to have rape, pregnancy, and miscarriage in their top five choices for character growth. In my opinion, that's bovine-sourced organic fertilizer."
I'd add very traditional heterosexual marriage as one of the remaining two. Because so many - usually male - writers cannot think of anything to do with women other than make them wives, mothers, and/or victims. We recently had the new Lara Croft game uproar where a new backstory was suggested. Instead of "survives a plane crash and makes her way through the jungle alone", the new backstory was "nearly gets raped on an island". Because that's the only way gamers could "empathise" with Lara, by wanting to "protect" her. The fail happens on so many levels it's ridiculous.*
Expecting female characters to be victimized, suggesting ways they can "bring it on themselves", and seeing this as the only way for a woman to become empowered(!) are symptoms of the rape culture that so many deny exist. It does exist, and one of the ways we need to tackle it is through creating and consuming media that doesn't victimise us. So kudos for McGuire and her tough and uncompromising stance on this. She doesn't want to write rape, she's not going to write rape, and the majority of current and future readers applaud her for it.
*A clarification was later issued saying there's no sexual assault and it's all a build up to giving Lara her first human kill. If the threat of rape is there, if people watching the trailer/playing the game see the threat there, it's still victimizing Lara by indirect sexual assault.
Not "if." Not "do you think." But "when," and "finally." Because it is a foregone conclusion, you see, that all women must be raped, especially when they have the gall to run around being protagonists all the damn time.
When she replied "Never", she was told that this was unrealistic, despite her novels being fantasy based tales in which one of said female characters looks human but is a parasitic wasp. The fan heaped on some victim blaming by suggesting ways in which a rape could "realistically happen" like a female wandering around in her provocative dance outfit after dark.
The comments are full of win. Like many there, I've not read McGuire's work but now I want to, and I know I'll never have to worry about the 'rape as character development' trope when I do.
As one of the commentators,
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I'd add very traditional heterosexual marriage as one of the remaining two. Because so many - usually male - writers cannot think of anything to do with women other than make them wives, mothers, and/or victims. We recently had the new Lara Croft game uproar where a new backstory was suggested. Instead of "survives a plane crash and makes her way through the jungle alone", the new backstory was "nearly gets raped on an island". Because that's the only way gamers could "empathise" with Lara, by wanting to "protect" her. The fail happens on so many levels it's ridiculous.*
Expecting female characters to be victimized, suggesting ways they can "bring it on themselves", and seeing this as the only way for a woman to become empowered(!) are symptoms of the rape culture that so many deny exist. It does exist, and one of the ways we need to tackle it is through creating and consuming media that doesn't victimise us. So kudos for McGuire and her tough and uncompromising stance on this. She doesn't want to write rape, she's not going to write rape, and the majority of current and future readers applaud her for it.
*A clarification was later issued saying there's no sexual assault and it's all a build up to giving Lara her first human kill. If the threat of rape is there, if people watching the trailer/playing the game see the threat there, it's still victimizing Lara by indirect sexual assault.