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The Stages Of National Novel Writing Month
"You need to prepare for NaNoWriMo, even if you’re not the one writing."
Fun article with lots of gifs, the usual Buzzfeed style - I'm dreading the halfway mark myself and it was nice to see that everyone knows and fears it!
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My Articles
I don't have a lot to say this time around but I've made many posts before on the topic of asexuality generally and for previous Asexual Awareness Weeks in particular, and you can read them all at this tag.
From the "I'm asexual, not a puritan!" to types of asexuality and types of attraction (autochorissexualim anyone?), to masturbation, to what's it like consuming and creating media when you're asexual, I've written on a variety of topics.

My Fiction
I also write asexual characters on occasion and a notable example occurs in the novel I'm working on, and his orientation is discussed in this short pre-canon fic.
Bliss is an ace and aromantic friendly ficlet about self-pleasure.
Whole and Complete Unto Thyself is a fic focussed on asexuality: "There's nothing like being told the only sex you'll ever have is wrong to knock your self-esteem. If you're lucky, you have a friend to vent to."

I do hope to cross-post the fiction to my writing blog and, possibly updated versions of some of the articles, to wordpress. My meta on reading Parker (Leverage) as asexual has been previously posted to wordpress.
I also have a pinterest board for asexuality.

Recommended Links

For new materials I'll recommend a few articles I've read online:

It’s not easy being Ace: Asexuality and the ace spectrum
By Iris Robin
http://thevarsity.ca/2015/02/09/its-not-easy-being-ace/
Rec'd by [personal profile] ysabetwordsmith this article is a good overview of asexuality focussed on the actual experiences of asexual people themselves.

10 Things You Should Never Say To Someone Who's Asexual
by Julie Sondra Decker
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-21893/10-things-you-should-never-say-to-someone-whos-asexual.html

#21AceStories: Sex Drive, Relationships, and Other Misconceptions
By Eliel Cruz
http://www.advocate.com/pride/2015/07/20/21acestories-sex-drive-relationships-and-other-misconceptions?page=0%2C0
We asked 21 asexual people around the world, 'What's the biggest misconception about asexuality



Thanks for reading. This is usually the time when someone stops following my blog or decides to twist something positive like the term "zucchini" into an insulting "oh, you're an emotional vegetable!" or some such. And still I keep writing these posts because I'm asexual; it's not a choice, it's my orientation, and I will continue to talk about it, write it about, and explore it.




Also posted at my wordpress blog with links/promos at twitter ; pinterest ; tumblr ; facebook
Likes/reblogs/shares etc at these sites are appreciated!
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Some recs today to help you get ready and excited for NaNoWriMo.

If you haven't started planning yet, and don't where to start, I highly recommend Max Kirkin's How to Plan a Novel. A non-proscriptive brainstorming session that helps you get started. It emphasises the importance of finding your enthusiasm, developing and following the characters as opposed to a strict plotline, and gives you some tools and tips that might work for you.
It's good to know I'm not the only one who listens to music and imagines music vids/fanvids/trailers of the fiction and characters I'm working with!

Worried about getting all those words written? Rachel Aaron's How I Went From Writing 2,000 Words a Day to 10,000 Words a Day might be helpful. At that rate you'd complete NaNoWriMo in five days!
Seriously though, there is a lot of pre-planning involved and if you're more of a pantser you might not find the process as useful as if you prefer a more coordinated approach. Plus it requires temporary sacrifices – think about how people are describing their preparation for NaNo, such as cleaning the house now because nothing non-essential will not get done during November!
The approach that works for Aaron is to step away from the computer and make handwritten notes about what the scene about to written consists of. This is coupled with some research about how you write – when and where do you achieve your best wordcounts? Find out and use that knowledge to plan your writing. Finally, there's a focus on enthusiasm, something echoing Max Kirin's advice. You have to love this story, you have to get excited about it. The words will come more easily if you're in your optimum workspace, knowing what you want to write, and you're excited to do so.

I've seen lots of advice about gearing up for NaNo and things like "talk in the NaNo forums" and "make a playlist" to get you enthused. Amanda McCormick's article NaNoWriMo Tip #5 – Get Hyped! gives five suggestions to get you started.

As I said before, I'm not used to this level of planning and I'm still struggling to pin down some of the details. But some of the characters and scenes are very clear to me and I'm making notes before I forget the details. I'm hoping that keeping these in reserve and not letting myself write them yet will let them grow, ferment, brew, and that, in November, I'll be anxious to write out the full versions of the scenes.


If you want to be writing buddies I'm meridianrose.



This article was crossposted from my wordpress blog and linked/promo'd at Pinterest, Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr; comments/likes/reblogs, etc at those sites are much appreciated.
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I've never participated in NaNoWriMo, for reasons I've written about in the past, but, for other reasons, I strongly feel I want to attempt it this year – or at least some sort of Rebel NaNo where I get to write other things alongside the novel!

As a result I'm desperately trying to get all the information together before I start. I'm mostly a pants-er but NaNo doesn’t allow you to spend days thinking about things like names. And for me the names have to be right; one of the eternal joys of fanfic is that, even if you hate the names, all the characters are already named and have jobs and you can get on with the plot.

[profile] alderspring has a post up with lots of links to name generators and naming sites. Whether you're thinking of writing for NaNo or just want some inspiraiton for naming your OCs, towns, businesses, or pirate ships, there's a generator for you.

I've long been fond of http://behindthename.com and http://seventhsanctum.com but http://www.babynamewizard.com/ and http://www.magicbabynames.com/ offer something a bit different; tell these sites names you like and they suggest others that are similar in some way. This can be useful if you're overly attached to a name and need a variant for a new story, or for finding siblings for existing characters!


bonus link: https://thewritepractice.com/plotters-pantsers/ explains the terms and the difference between them
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Something different; a couple of links

Masturbation: literature's last taboo This 2010 article asserts that:
Masturbation has always been literary. "Traffic with thyself", as Shakespeare tuttingly referred to it, is the only sex that takes place purely in the imagination – fictional characters are its livelihood. Better still, there are no rules, all bets are off, and you can get away with whatever you like. But despite being truly democratic – if not downright anarchic – in its availability, masturbation is the one form of sex that writers have yet to truly get to grips with.
Perhaps this is because we're still hungover from the time when self-love was seen as the cause of everything from insanity to infirmity to an early death. According to one prominent historian, we have yet to resolve our anxiety over this activity, which represents not a social engagement with another, but a retreat into the unbounded world of our imaginations. We still feel deep ambivalence about such unpoliced pleasure, even while most of us are paid-up subscribers. The horror of masturbation – which has no rules and can't be brought to heel by society – has been handed down to us largely intact. Ninety years after Ulysses was banned for not-very-subtly describing Bloom's "long Roman candle" joyously exploding in the air, the act of onanism retains a power to shock that no other kind of sex in literature can.

I think this explains some of the positives around masturbation, especially for those on the asexual spectrum and/or those identifying as autochorissexual, with the focus on fictional characters.
The "can't be brought to heel by society" also highlights the anti-Puritanism of the act, daring to take pleasure without the threat of pregnancy (the "real" reason for sex put forward by fundamentalists of many a religion) or the danger of a sexually transmitted disease. It's harder to control hedonism that does not require a purchase or even a partner.

A list of books about masturbation. I've only read one of the books listed, which was a useful introduction, especially pre-Internet, to a relatively taboo subject.

Love the One You’re With: Masturbation in Romance Novels An article that begins "There is no love quite like self love. I have no problems with masturbation in romance; some feel it takes away from the romance, but I disagree."
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As I wrote about before, it is the tenth anniversary of [community profile] mmom, the merry month of masturbation. I'm going to try and write fic for it this time around. I have in the past featured it in my fanfic (not written specifically for that comm); 1, 2, 3, 4, 5,

And in my original fic; Different Does Not Mean Changed

I've also talked about why masturbation is an important subject generally and tackled some myths – it's not unhealthy but rather a great way to avoid most of the risks associated with partnered sex; it's not selfish and it can be the primary way women in particular achieve (or learn to achieve) orgasm; it's not a lesser experience, nor something that just stops if you have a partner but something most people engage in whether they're in a relationship or not - and how it's particularly important for me:
Asexuality and Masturbation part one; part two

There might be original fic or meta amongst the fanfic this time too.

Last year [community profile] allbingo posted a Solo celebration bingo card. The comm is hosting something different this year but given the laidback nature of the comm last year's card or any variant you make can be used.

With all the het, slash, femslash fics and variety of kink memes, it continues to surprise and sadden me that masturbation is so overlooked. Here's to creating and consuming more works featuring people talking about and engaging in it.
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I've let myself get behind, and there's over two months worth of links here, so it's longer than usual. But given how some of my Tumblr posts have zero notes (remind me how tagging your posts is guaranteed to get a Tumblr audience unlike the "dead" LJ?) I'm keen to showcase them here too, and I always like to share links to articles I've read that have stood out for me.

This Show Reblogged gifs from "The Flash", featuring the father-son type relationship between Barry Allen and Joe West to which I added some commentary about how I love all the characters and this relationship.

Lewis: The Moonbeams Brief review/commentary added to a reblog about an episode of "Lewis" featuring Tom Riley as an artist who appears to be on the autistic spectrum.

Overnight Everything I Loved Was Gone I posted a link to a longer excerpt which was originally posted here and added some commentary of my own about the Internet and public shaming.

Why Historical Inaccuracies in Wolf Hall Don't Matter I posted an excerpt from a longer newspaper article. Wolf Hall is a drama, not a documentary, so artistic licence is allowed. And how accurate can we be about the Tudors anyway…in matters of characterisation, what can accuracy mean? We will never know the exact balance of sexual desire, dynastic ambition and theological disputation that led Henry VIII to marry and divorce in the way that he did. Finally an article saying what I seem to say every damn month. I added brief commentary when I posted the link.

Artisitic License in Vikings, Black Sails, and Da Vinci's Demons A reblog of another article that gets it; Da Vinci’s maxim that “the best story wins” thus applies to historical fiction as a whole. The genre often comes under criticism for historical departures, but as we well know, “history” is a constructed narrative, and what we term “accurate” can often be subjective. Such artistic license not only makes historical fiction more narratively cohesive and dramatically entertaining, but is instructive in ways that history is not, as the artists behind these shows use the conscious inaccuracies to underscore the perspectives and motives of the people of that era, helping us deepen our understand of that era, something history alone cannot do."
I addded my own commentary and graphic.

I'm a 20's Something Erotic Writer Who's Never Had Sex I posted a link to the article with commentary because as an asexual I was hoping to find this inspiring instead of some condescending crap about how with the writer bragging about being "fully functional" despite being a virgin without a husband or kids while being hypocritically nasty about "sad old single romance writers with cats". Her youth will fade and maybe she'll lose her "real" job that she's proud of, and then she'll be the "stereotype" she's so horrified by. Though since this post went utterly unnoticed, maybe everyone agrees with the smug author that it's okay be a virgin but not be an older virgin and/or someone without "real" employment because writing doesn't count. One more author I'll make sure never to read.

Terry Pratchett: An Accidental Pagan Theologian A lovely article I posted a link to that points out "He was one of the very few writers to speculate on how deities come into being, first as particles of energy, then accumulating more energy from the minds of worshippers (in the book Small Gods)" and talks about how "Much of his work explores ideas of social justice."
I added my own commentary: "As a pagan, a lover of stories, and a writer, I agree wholeheartedly. The stories around the power of belief, the power of story, the power of people to affect change, are wonderful concepts. His work has impacted, and continues to impact, my thoughts and beliefs and creativity."

Things I Want in Da Vinci's Demons Season 3 And since I probably won't get the interaction between these two particular characters, despite their shared experiences, I'll just have to write it in fanfic.

Other articles

True Gender Equality Is Actually Perceived As Inequality Reblogged (with some minor commentary in tags) link from a longer article about Fandom and Male Priviledge which is worth a look, examining male privilege generally and the more female nature of fandom and how more recent male involvement risks damaging spaces largely developed by and for women.

In Celebration of Old School Live Journal Timely, given my post about how LJ is not dead is this article where the author waxes nostalgic about LJ and the connections she made through it. Not good enough to keep her invested in using it, and she inadvertently makes a case against Tumblr and it's inability to foster the same kind of personal connections, but it's still an interesting read – and some of the comments on the article are made by current LJ users.

Hapax and Heyer, Austen and Irony, or, What I should have said an interesting article in which the author talks about the difference between the works of Georgette Heyer and those of Jane Austen.

13 Things Fan Fiction Writers Are Very Tired Of Explaining. Yes, we can and usually do write non-fanfic, and actually, writing fic usually isn’t “just a phase” are two of the gems here.

In my mini-meta about sexuality in mainstream vs non-mainstream fiction, I mentioned two articles that I think warrant mention in and of themselves:
The Thing about Reading Fanfic and Original Slash you get used to that particular writing/reading culture after a while. You get used to the frank discussions of sexuality and kink, the close attention to diversity and social justice issues in the text, the unrestrained creativity when it comes to plot. The most amazing, creative, engaging stories I’ve ever read have almost all been fanfiction, and I think part of that is because there’s no limitations placed on the authors.
And
Halt & Catch Pointless Heterosexuality looking particularly at "Supernatural" but addressing issues of representation and queer baiting on the whole: "There are a lot of different rationales fans and viewers put forward in the argument that Dean should not be shown as canonically bisexual, one being that “the show is not about that” or that it would “distract from the story” or that it “serves no purpose.” Alright, well, for the moment let’s just skip over the fact that no one in the history of ever has argued that depictions of heterosexuality ought to be relegated only to shows that are “about” romance/sex. Or that canonical affirmation of a character’s heterosexuality “distracts” from the story. Or that a character’s heterosexuality “serves no purpose” so it should not be present in the narrative at all. Let’s just skip over the queer-phobic nature of demanding that same-sex eroticism constantly justify its own existence in media in a way heterosexuality NEVER EVER EVER is called upon to do. Let’s just by-pass that particular issue, for the moment." The author is rightfully angry about how queer identities are treated.
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Day 1 – self promotion
Day 12 - What do you bring to fandom?
Day 13 - Rec a creator
Day 14 - Rec fanworks
Day 15 - Create a challenge - what’s something you want to see more people doing in fandom?

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I was tagged on a Facebook meme to talk about ten stories that "stayed with me", which I took to be an invitation to mention a few books, including non-fic, that are, or have been, important to me. I thought I'd post it here too.
Read more... )
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(click through to source, text reads "I wanna read this very specific fanfiction but I really, really don’t want to write it" - a story about me")

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(click through to source, text reads "Problems: 1. I want this story to be written, 2. I don’t want this story to be written by anyone but me, 3. I don’t want to write this story)")

I can relate to both of these. Something more serious now: Championing Your Story

I came across an interesting blog, Insecure Writer's Support Group and in particular the entry entitled 6 Tips To Championing Your Story

It opens with: Read more... )
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Poem by inkskinned - if it speaks to you and you have a tumblr, please consider liking/reblogging it at the source.

I think this perfectly captures the terrible rawness of losing your connection to creativity. Only those who are creative truly understand the pain of that separation. May it always be a temporary one.

This entry originally posted to [community profile] dryspell
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Most of this entry is shamelessly copied from the OTW-fannews Feb 4th update - also linkable from Tumblr. I've included some thoughts at the end though.

• Writer Jim Hines discussed what his experience writing fan fiction taught him about writing. This included "Writing good fanfic is just as challenging as writing good anything else", "Instant feedback is dangerously addictive", "Fanfic can be freeing", "I can do 'realtime' writing", and "A writer is someone who writes. I’ve never understood why some people jealously protect the coveted title of 'Author' or 'Writer.'...Having done both profic and fanfic, I don’t get it. Calling someone who does fanfic a writer or an author doesn’t in any way diminish or dilute me and my work. Why is this even an argument?"
• Teen Librarian Toolbox hosted a post by author Frankie Brown discussing fanfiction and writer's block. "I couldn’t invest in writing original fiction. I was too tired, too anxious, too stuck." She turned to "Fanfiction. Lots and lots of Sherlock fanfiction. Reading it, writing it (Yes! Writing it!), reviewing it, chatting with bloggers and digging through archives. Sitting down to write about Sherlock Holmes and Dr. Watson didn’t make my chest feel tight or my throat close up. There were no expectations. If it sucked, who cared? No one would know it was me. But of course it was me. Me at the keyboard, remembering why I loved writing, and -- eventually, tentatively -- typing out the first sentences to my next novel. When I submitted my final edits to Meredith, editor-in-awesome at Bloomsbury Spark, I was as happy and excited as I should’ve been."
• Writer A.L.S. Vossler told a similar tale. "I was sailing through some rather severe writing doldrums with my novel when I experienced this fan fiction epiphany. So, swallowing even more of my pride, I allowed myself to indulge in a little fan fiction writing and returned to my former habit of telling stories to myself. I was blown away by how much fun it was. My creativity levels soared. I wrote pages and pages of fan fiction in a few days. That was when the bonds of writer’s block fell away and I returned to my own novel, my own 'real' writing."
• Blogger Sara K. cited a fanfiction drawback that led her to stop reading. "I think being aromantic/asexual is a big part why I could not get into fanfiction. When I first learned about online fanfiction, I imagined being able to explore many different aspects of stories I loved. When I discovered how the vast majority of fanfiction revolves around romance and sex, so much so that identifying the ‘ship is a standard part of categorization ... I felt really disappointed...Yet finding fic...is so hard that it’s not worth it ... especially when you are part of a community where you’re expected to at least read each other’s fics. I simply felt more comfortable just staying out of the fanfic arena."

FANFIC IS NOT INFERIOR TO PUBLISHED WORKS. Even "real" authors say so. I commented the other day that I've done a lot of reading of various original works on my Nook lately (classics, self-pub, indie publishers and mainstream promo offerings) and the ratio of awesome to good to utter crap is about the same as in fanfic.

That last one is the only one I take issue with. The blogger picks out the incest trope as "The fic writers could not even acknowledge the possibilities for profound and fascinating relationships between children, siblings, and parents without adding romance/sex." Leaving aside canonical incest pairings, yes, there can be a problem, that there's "absolutely no space whatsoever for deep, non-sexual, non-romantic relationships". But that's a problem everywhere, all the time.
You've all heard me rant about the relationship hierarchy of "person you're fucking" followed by "child you've birthed" followed way, way down the line by anyone else you might care about. It's a societal/cultural problem that fanfic is mirroring, not creating. In fact by by writing slash as no big deal, fanfic is pushing at outdated boundaries, and by exploring taboo issues like incest, forcing us to re-examine our own prejudices.

The blogger brushes off mainstream concerns, acknowledging that "I've noted repeatedly that I actually like well-written romance fiction. However, it’s not hard to find original fiction focused on something other than romance, so when I choose to read romance-focused fiction it is a choice (not to mention that many ‘romance’ stories have a very broad focus). Thus, I feel less excluded by original fiction than fanfiction. That said, it’s very difficult to find original fiction which passes my test"

There are so few asexual characters onscreen or in published fiction that it's laughable, and most of those representations are problematic in some way. So complaining that fanfic is all ship, all the time, seems a bit much. It's a rare novel where relationships aren't part, sometimes a major part, of the plot. Crime stories. Adventure stories. Thrillers and dramas. The damsel in distress, the femme fatale. At least in fic there are more happy endings for queer characters, and a broader acceptance of polyamory. Whereas the mainstream media is highly invested in promoting and idolising heterosexual-monogamy –plus-babies.

Is fanfic all sex? There are some assholes who sniff that they don't see the point in non-smutty fanfic; they're the ones contributing to the poor image of fanfic by linking it specifically with erotica and porn. However non-smut exists. There is gen fic. There are character studies. There are stories where romance is not the focus of the story even where it is present – to echo the blogger's assertion, I would say "many fanfic stories have a very broad focus". It's why I love the multiple tagging at AO3 – I can tag for romance, and adventure, and historical AU, and angst, and hurt/comfort, because maybe my fic is all those things and the romance is just a small part of that.

I identify as asexual. I enjoy well-written erotica (Some of the classic Black Lace – written by women for women – remain my favourites), but sometimes a book or a fanfic's sexual scenes are not hitting my kinks or not written in a style I enjoy, or whatever. But if the rest of the story is good, I'll just skim over the most explicit scenes – and I've seen confessions that other people do this too. Sex is not the be all and end all, in fic, any more than it is in life!

I think it's a mistake to paint all fanfic as sexual, though I do think we need more conversations about sex vs relationships and to have more variety of relationships onscreen and in printed works. But these are themes I come back to time and again, so I'm probably not saying anything new here.
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I didn't even manage five poems, given the lack of interest, and have resorted to graphics tutorials and, today, recs (in the vain hope what other people have to say is more interesting), so day six will be the last post of poetry week. Still, have a haiku

poetry is one
way of expressing one's
deepest hopes, dreams, fears

Rec's:

Themes of the week were creativity, the highs and lows:

see the whole comic strip here

And the importance of audience:
If we write a book and no one reads it, does the book really exist? Or is it simply a collection of words caught somewhere between yesterday and eternity, destined to float silently through the universe until it disappears altogether?
read the whole article here

It's pretty ironic that for most of these pieces where I'm writing about the importance of audience, I don't have one. There's always people saying "you should totally…" write more poetry/publish a book/finish that fanfic/make a record/learn to edit vids, when what they mean is "You should totally do that but I won't read/listen/watch". It rather reminds me of Zoolander's Hansel enthusing about his "hero", Sting:

Sting would be another person who's a hero. The music he's created over the years, I don't really listen to it, but the fact that he's making it, I respect that.
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In your own space, talk about a creator. Show us why you think they are amazing.

I talked about creators last time but a bit I'm stuck for mentioning new individuals, reading and consuming quite broadly. I certainly mention them in my resources post, those wonderful people who provide icon textures and psds and tutorials and screencaps so the rest of us can more easily create fanworks. I certainly follow journals and tumblrs of fantastic creators and reccers (is reccers a word? As in, those who recommend things?).
It's sort of a tumblr rec rather than solely a creator rec, but the owner of this tumblr creates a significant amount of what is posted, so I'll rec FuckYeahBorgia/The Original Crime Family for wonderful gifs and graphics that are helping to keep the fandom active.

However what I mostly want to do is give a shout out to all the creators who keep fandoms alive, especially the cancelled and/or small fandoms. Who continue to write and manip and gif and draw and vid and podfic and make fanmixes and icons and all the other things.
And, of course to all those who continue to read and review and reblog and share and comment on the fanworks, because creating is only half of the equation.

Fandoms are like the Discworld gods. They never truly disappear, because there is always a follower somewhere who still loves it, or a new follower who just discovered it. And that's something to celebrate.

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