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It's Asexual Awareness Week. I'm not creating anything this year but I have tags for my previous asexual awareness week posts and a tag for all posts including meta and fiction looking at asexuality, theme: asexuality spectrum

There's been pushback against asexuality in some places. Some tumblr posts insist that asexuals aren't "oppressed enough" to be consider part of the LGBT+ community (those posts insist "queer is a slur" too despite significant commentary to the contrary on how important the reclaiming and use of the term is for many.)
There are posts accusing people of "sexualising" children by saying that we should acknowledge more than just heterosexual romantic and sexual attraction. That telling someone you're asexual is "unneccessary" and exposing them to "information about your sex life".
Posts saying asexuals just need hormones or counselling or to be raped.
Posts saying that asexual posts confuse people and prevent them from being gay because of "internalised homophobia".

Most of those things have been, and in some cases, still are used as fodder against other queer groups.
"Trans people aren't allowed in gay spaces because a transman with a woman is heterosexual"
"Bihets aren't allowed in gay spaces!" (ie a bi/pansexual person in a relationship with someone of the opposite gender. The term bihet erases bisexuality by making same sex relationships gay, opposite sex relationships straight, and ignores trans people and nonbinary identities)
"Don't mention lebsians or women won't get married as they should."
"Stop mentioning you're gay, you're throwing your sexuality in my face!" (As they wear a wedding ring and have a photo of their wife on their desk, secure in displays of heterosexuality)
"You're not a gay man or a transwomen, you just need more testosterone and to pray harder to be the straight man you should be."
"She won't be a lesbian after I've f*cked her"

There's been some interesting discussion about the Russian bots that infiltrated Tumblr and the rise of dissent amongst queer groups who should be allies not enemies; "gold star lesbian" rhetoric, posts that are anti-bisexual and anti-asexual, a rise in TERF posts centring womanhood on menstruation and reproduction. Divide and conquer. It's awful and it's unacceptable.

If you don't know anything about asexuality there's a primer here and a lot of other links in this Asexual Awareness Week 2017 post.

Thanks for reading.